Ian,

You have nothing to lose here. If you go after her and she says no, well at least you'll know that it's not meant to be. If you do nothing about it, you'll only end up regretting it and wondering if things might have been different.

As Lister once said: "If there's one thing I've learned, it's that you dont get many shots at happiness, so when you do, go for them all...."

Go talk to her. That's an order :P

*hugs*
xx