Aaaaaarrggghh. Reading all of this makes me fret for several reasons.
I have sympathy for you because of the difficult situation that this has put you in, but at the same time I feel sorry for Lorraine [funny how no-one else here actually uses her name....] because I totally understand how she feels.
If I was brave enough, I'd talk to her about how she feels and offer her some advice as to how to get over you [it took me long enough with Ben but things do get better :)], but I think it would be wrong of me to initiate such a conversation. I mean, she probably doesn't even know that I am aware of the current situation. Perhaps you could suggest to Lorraine that I would be the type of person she might want to chat to when she feels down? I'd be more than happy for her to call me.
I dont know. I know you need somewhere to vent but seeing everyone on here talking about Lorraine like this depresses me. I guess I know her better than people here?
Dont get me wrong, I know that people here are offering advice and possible solutions in order to try and help Lorraine, but at the same time, I feel like it's a big secret Lorraine-bashing society :(
*sigh* I knew I was in a funny mood today. Sorry. I'll probably regret this comment tomorrow. *hugs* xx
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Date: 2003-09-22 12:50 pm (UTC)I have sympathy for you because of the difficult situation that this has put you in, but at the same time I feel sorry for Lorraine [funny how no-one else here actually uses her name....] because I totally understand how she feels.
If I was brave enough, I'd talk to her about how she feels and offer her some advice as to how to get over you [it took me long enough with Ben but things do get better :)], but I think it would be wrong of me to initiate such a conversation. I mean, she probably doesn't even know that I am aware of the current situation. Perhaps you could suggest to Lorraine that I would be the type of person she might want to chat to when she feels down? I'd be more than happy for her to call me.
I dont know. I know you need somewhere to vent but seeing everyone on here talking about Lorraine like this depresses me. I guess I know her better than people here?
Dont get me wrong, I know that people here are offering advice and possible solutions in order to try and help Lorraine, but at the same time, I feel like it's a big secret Lorraine-bashing society :(
*sigh* I knew I was in a funny mood today. Sorry. I'll probably regret this comment tomorrow. *hugs* xx