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[cheekbones3]

Thanks for all your interest/advice in my home problems! Spoke to the lass in question last night to at least clear up what she really thinks about things, and she says it not that she's trying to get over me - more like she's trying to trust me enough to feel that we can be friends normally. It was described as being in three stages - crap, when she's really upset, in the middle where it seems to often be, and "normal". Trouble is, whenever it approaches normal, she gets closer to me and more "clingy" in my mind because she's feeling more comfortable. This makes me push her away, and makes her upset again. We just need to get past the stage where she tries to get close to me to build confidence so that she can be secure and not need to lean on me. Getting to this stage seems to be the problem however, since I need to get out way before she is comfortable enough. If I get away for a while, she has no-one to help her get back to normal. She needs to be with good friends, I need peace! Not sure how things could work if she's in Edinburgh. Hmmm!

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No problems - just trying to give a girly eye view, really.

*grins*