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[cheekbones3]

I think 90% of my time has been occupied by one person since Thursday night, and by god I need out of here tonight! And most of the time, it was because it was easier than going alone and getting shit for it later. I really need a full day away! Can anyone entertain me this evening?

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[nickys.livejournal.com]

It's been said before - and better than I can say it - that you are not helping her by giving in and taking her with you when you go out.

She won't learn to cope with making friends on her own unless she has to, and, more importantly, she won't manage to get over you until you're not available to her anymore.

Ideally it would be good if you two could be friends in the long term, but at the moment, while she's still confusing friendship with a potential restarting of a relationship, it would be better for both of you to have a break from spending any time together.

Are there any friends of yours who might be prepared to call her and invite her to stuff which you're not going to? Thomas, possibly? Or skx?
If you let me know her email address I'll invite her on the next Girls Night Out. Or, if she roleplays, we've got the girly group on Thursday nights too...

I suggest that you do keep her off LJ, though. It's a right pain having to go back through all your old posts and re-set the access level to the relevant ones (I had to do it a while back because of my stalker), and, as you say, LJ Meetups would no longer be something you could do without her.

Can't help you with tonight, but I've a vague recollection that reiki was mentioned as a possibility for sometime this month?

[cheekbones3.livejournal.com]

The only trouble is that if I stay away from her, she'll get very upset for a while. I'm not sure if I want to inflict that on my flatmates! Next time she gets upset, that may be the way to go however.

AS for people asking her out, maybe they could, although it would seem a bit false for me to prod people to do that!

Her address is bunnyphone@hotmail.com

I'm sure she'd enjoy a girlie night, as long as people spoke to her anyway!

[lilitufire.livejournal.com]

We probably need a little more information on her than "Ian's ex", though ;)

I actually think the roleplaying idea isn't a bad one - it's quite girly and quite relaxed, something that a newcomer to roleplaying could cope with, for sure...

[imagesandwords.livejournal.com]

Thomas ask girl out to dinner... thats clearly gonna make it better for everyone.

No, really.

[nickys.livejournal.com]

I was thinking more along the lines of inviting her to come to the pub when you're meeting a group of friends or something low-stress like that.

[cheekbones3.livejournal.com]

I think you should :O)